Category Archives: Lessons Along the Way

In Quietness and Trust is your Strength

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“This is what the Sovereign LORD, the Holy One of Israel, says: “In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength, but you would have none of it.” ~ Isaiah 30:15 This is one of my favorite verses, but living in this truth can be a bit challenging when you are in waiting mode… “In quietness and trust is your strength“! I keep repeating this to myself as I try to hush the voice inside shouting, “Please move more quickly, Lord!” It’s like I have restless feet syndrome. (That’s a real thing, I think.) It’s an involuntary impulse that’s hard to control even through reasoning with solid scriptural advice to myself. I thought God was going to move us to our new ministry in Rome in September, but it’s almost time to flip the page to October. The leaves are turning, the days are shortening, my bags are packed and I’m ready to go! But it seems the pause button was pressed as we wait for a document from Italy that we need for our visas.

Resting in God’s sovereign timing is easier on some days than others. I am grateful for the added blessing of more time to spend with our family before our move, not to mention more time to find a renter for our house. Please pray for me as I learn (once again) to to WAIT “in quietness and trust”! I know His timing is always perfect and waiting on Him just means more time in His presence.

Here’s an A. Murray quote on the blessing of waiting on the Lord… “Just imagine what the result would be if the child of God had only to kneel down and ask, and get, and go away. What unspeakable loss to the spiritual life would ensue. It is in the difficulty and delay that calls for persevering prayer, that the true blessing and blessedness of the heavenly life will be found. We there learn how little we delight in fellowship with God, and how little we have of living faith in Him. We discover how earthly and unspiritual our heart still is, how little we have of God’s Holy Spirit. We there are brought to know our own weakness and unworthiness, and to yield to God’s Spirit to pray in us, to take our place in Christ Jesus, and abide in Him as our only plea with the Father. There our own will and strength and goodness are crucified. There we rise in Christ to newness of life, with our whole will dependent on God and set upon His glory. Do let us begin to praise God for the need and the difficulty of persistent prayer, as one of His choicest means of grace.”

We were created for Prayer!

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Prayer is easily one of the most mysterious, misunderstood, and altogether missed opportunities that our Lord has given us… Even though it may be one of the most talked about and taught on subjects in Christian communities.

If we had even the tiniest inkling of who we are in Christ and the power of prayer, everything would change… Not just in our world, but in the entire world.

Prayer is the amazing privilege we’ve been given to be in the presence of the Almighty Creator of the Universe… not only for our own personal growth and edification… not just to present our own needs and requests.  Although these are certainly important aspects of prayer, it is intended to be so much more! We are intended to be so much more!

As followers of Christ, we’ve been given the commission to be ministers of the new covenant. My prayer is that we would take a minute to consider what this means,  and as we do, God will lead us to dive deeper into a life of prayer. Not merely to make a little time for prayer… but to make prayer the priority our life.

Let’s look at the big picture… 

In order to understand who we are in Christ, we need to have a basic understanding of the purpose of the two Covenants (the old testament and the new testament). We were created in the image of God for the purpose knowing God and glorifying Him by bearing His image. As His image-bearer, man was put in charge of all God’s creation as God’s representative. God in His infinite wisdom created us with free will, giving us the capacity to choose to respond to Him in love, trust and complete dependence. But, this free will has a rather obvious downside – we can also choose not to. When man chose not to trust God – sin entered, he disobeyed and the relationship he had enjoyed with God was destroyed. He became afraid of God and hid from Him. The image of God that he was supposed to bear became distorted beyond recognition. God knew man could not save himself from the grip of sin. If man was to be saved, God would need to accomplish it and our salvation could only come through faith in God’s ability to accomplish it. This would take some strategic planning! We would need to be brought to the realization that all our own efforts to save ourselves are hopeless. We would need to learn that we can trust God. The root of all disobedience is unbelief. And with our free will running amuck, dragging us deeper and deeper into our self -absorbed pit of depravity, the tricky part would be to awaken our desire for salvation. God would also need to get our eyes off ourselves and onto Him so He could begin the work of restoring our relationship to Him with the intent of resuming His original purpose: to send us out into the world as His image bearers in order to bring glory to His Name.

This is the reason for the two covenants. It wasn’t …Plan A: Paradise… Plan B: The Law… Then Plan C: The Cross!… The Cross was always Plan A! Before the foundation of the world this was God’s plan. (Rev.13:18)

In the 1st part of this plan God gives 10 commandments to outline what it looks like to bear His image in order to honor Him and bring glory to His Name. The Law isn’t just a collection of random rules that God made just to prove we couldn’t keep them. God used the Law to say, I want you to bear my image and this is what it looks like. But we were never designed to bear His image apart from His indwelling presence. It’s absolutely impossible on our own!

In the 1st covenant man has a part and God has a part. Man’s part is to obey. God’s part is to reward obedience and punish disobedience.

Let’s take a quick look at it…

Deuteronomy 4:1 “Hear now, O Israel, the decrees and laws I am about to teach you. Follow them so that you may live…”

4:6 “Observe them carefully, for this will show your wisdom and understanding to the nations …”

6:25 “And if we are careful to obey all this law before the LORD our God, as he has commanded us, that will be our righteousness.”

7:12 “If you pay attention to these laws and are careful to follow them, then the LORD your God will keep his covenant of love with you, as he swore to your forefathers.”

11:26-28 “See, I am setting before you today a blessing and a curse – the blessing if you obey the commands of the LORD your God that I am giving you today; the curse if you disobey the commands of the LORD your God and turn from the way that I command you.”

Notice the key word… “IF”

How do you think that worked out for them?

The point of the 1st Covenant… We can’t do this. We need a Savior!

The 1st Covenant was absolutely essential to God’s plan for our salvation.

Without an understanding of our great need, we can’t and won’t come to God on His terms… Without an understanding of our predicament, we will die in our sin. No matter how nice we are, we will never be nice enough to measure up to God’s perfect standard of righteousness.

Thankfully, we’ve been given a New covenant!

Hebrews 9:14-15 “How much more, then, will the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered himself unblemished to God, cleanse our consciences from acts that lead to death, so that we may serve the living God! For this reason Christ is the mediator of a new covenant, that those who are called may receive the promised eternal inheritance–now that he has died as a ransom to set them free from the sins committed under the first covenant.”

Remember, in the 1st covenant man has a part and God has a part.

In the 2nd covenant, God accomplishes both parts!

Now that’s A WIN – WIN situation!

After the 1st covenant had made our predicament obvious, Jesus steps in and pays our penalty for us!

And if that wasn’t enough, there’s even more… Not only does God provide for our justification, giving us right standing with God by declaring us not guilty. He also commits himself to accomplish our sanctification by promising to send the Holy Spirit to lead us into all truth and restore the image of God that we discarded.

2 Corinthians 3:6 He has made us competent as ministers of a new covenant–not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.”

We accept Salvation as a gift, but then something in us tells us we can manage from here on our own. Sin has taken such a toll on us that it doesn’t even occur to us that the reason God saved us was to bring us back into that close relationship that was lost in the garden.

Just as we needed God to do everything for our salvation, we also need God to do everything necessary to equip us for this new life!

When we finally come to the realization that God has redeemed us for Himself, and that it’s not about us, everything starts to make sense.

In the new covenant our freedom from the penalty and the power of sin has been accomplished by God. Faith is our only part and even that is a gift!

Jeremiah 24:7 “I will give them a heart to know me, that I am the LORD. They will be my people, and I will be their God, for they will return to me with all their heart.”

1 Corinthians 4:7 “For who makes you different from anyone else? What do you have that you did not receive? And if you did receive it, why do you boast as though you did not?”

The more absolute our surrender God… the more complete our dependence on God… the more wholeheartedly we trust Him to accomplish what only He can do… the more we will reflect His image to a lost and dying world!

God had a commission for Adam in the garden… to bear His image and manage His creation as His representative. Adam was to be in such an intimate relationship with Him, that this commission would be as natural as any son bearing his Father’s image and managing his Father’s business.

Under the 2nd Covenant Jesus is referred to as the 2nd Adam and He accomplished the commission of bearing God’s image to the world.

Hebrews 1:3a“The Son is the radiance of God’s glory and the exact representation of his being, sustaining all things by his powerful word.”

Under the first covenant Israel also had a commission to represent God to the world, but chose their own way instead. Under the first covenant, the Levites were to be set apart for the Lord. They were given the right to be in God’s presence and the obligation to intercede for the people. To be a priest meant that his life was not to be his own. The Lord was to be his portion. His job had two aspects. He was to represent God to the people, and bring the needs of the people before the Lord. He was to stand before the LORD to minister and to pronounce blessings in his name.

The priesthood of the 1st covenant was just a shadow that would ultimately be fulfilled with Christ as our High Priest.

Col. 2:17 “These are a shadow of the things that were to come; the reality, however, is found in Christ.”

1 Peter 2:9 “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.”

Every believer has been given the commission of interceding for the world!

Just as a son has the right and the boldness to ask his Father for the necessary provisions and laborers to conduct his Father’s business – we have the right and responsibility to bring these requests to God.

Heb. 4:16 “Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.”

It’s our job as His ambassadors to bring the needs of the people to Him. It’s our privilege as His children to ask with confidence!

Realizing our Dependence on God is key! We are to represent Christ and the only way that’s possible is by staying in his presence throughout the day. We need to remain in Him, because apart from him we can do nothing!

John 15:7 “If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you.”

What does remaining in Him look like?

Even Jesus being fully God emptied Himself of his power to become the mediator of this new covenant. He became flesh and submitted to becoming completely dependent on the Father for everything. Over and over Jesus states his dependence on the Father.

Throughout the book of John we hear Him saying… “not my words… not my honor… not my own glory… I speak nothing of myself… I came not of myself… I do nothing of myself… I do nothing on my own, but speak just what the Father has taught me…”

And almost in the same breath we hear Him saying things like:

John 10:30 “I and the Father are one.”

John 8:24 “If you do not believe that I am [the one I claim to be], you will indeed die in your sins.” 

John 8:28 “So Jesus said, ‘When you have lifted up the Son of Man, then you will know that I am [the one I claim to be] and that I do nothing on my own but speak just what the Father has taught me.’”

John 8:58 “I tell you the truth,” Jesus answered, “before Abraham was born, I am!”

If Jesus can say “It’s all God – Not me!” Why do we have such a hard time admitting this?

His attitude is to be our attitude… (please read Phil. 2:1-11) His commission is our commission!

John 17:18 “As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world.”

All the time I hear people wishing they knew God’s will for their life.

What if God is just waiting for us to do things that we already know are God’s will for us….

We are to bear His image to the world and this is only possible with Christ in us!

2 Corinthians 4:7 “For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ. But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us.”

We are to Represent Him to the people…

2 Corinthians 5:20 “We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us.”

We are to Intercede for the people…

2 Corinthians 5:14-15 “For Christ’s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again.”

In all this we are to have the same attitude as Christ, to know that it’s all about Him! Not my words… not my honor… not my own glory… I speak nothing of myself… I came not of myself… I do nothing of myself… I do nothing on my own…

This is God’s will for us…“‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind”… Jesus said this is the 1st and greatest commandment and the 2nd is like it…‘Love your neighbor as yourself.”

Learning to pray by merely reading about it would be as silly as trying to learn to swim by simply reading about it. You might learn something, but honestly, you will only learn to swim by diving in.

If we really want to learn to pray, we to need to “dive in”! The only place we can truly learn to pray is right in the middle of it with Christ as our teacher. The more we “dive in” and invest ourselves to wholeheartedly to live this life in Christ, the more we’ll realize that we’ve only just begun to scratch the surface of what prayer actually is. There will always be more for us to discover about prayer because prayer is the avenue through which we live this life of faith. We were created for Prayer!

Stepping Out On a Limb or Stepping Out in Faith

by Shelley Kardos

Sometimes stepping out in faith seems like stepping out on a limb, but in reality it is the decision to be God’s limb… to be His hands and feet in a world that needs to see the love of Christ. Stepping out in faith is a decision to be His branch, firmly attached to the True Vine, abiding in Him while moving and growing wherever He leads. Stepping out in faith is making the decision that Christ is enough. It is embracing the reality that He alone is my hope, my future and my security. It’s being confident that He will accomplish His purpose, in His timing, in His way and for His glory.

“For it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.” ~ Philippians 2:13

“I am the true vine, and my Father is the vinedresser.” ~ John 15:1

Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.” ~ John 15:4-5

From Fear to Faith

Our 4th short-term trip to Rome last October was very different from our other trips. It was a time for counting the cost… Fears and questions pounded my mind to the point where I couldn’t sleep. Without a doubt, the hardest part to wrap my brain around was the reality of moving so far away from our family… particularly our six grandkids! I was also beginning to see Rome without my enchanted rose-colored glasses and becoming more aware of the underbelly of the impoverished zone of Tor Bella Monaca where we’ll be living.

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To top it all off, I was concerned about not knowing Italian well enough to communicate the gospel and realizing how dangerous it could be if we needed to communicate in the case of an emergency. We have been taking Italian lessons for over a year (and practicing with Rosetta Stone for even longer). We’ve learned a lot, but we still struggle with the grammar and syntax that is so different from English.

After wrestling with my fears and questions one long sleepless night in Rome last October, I finally got out of bed at three in the morning to pray. I picked up Mike’s Bible and a photocopied page fell out. The title read, Biographies of bold disciples begin with chapters of honest terror.” I knew that this was for me! God proceeded to comfort me with His presence, and through His word He answered my many questions as I poured my heart out to Him.

That morning I gave it all into my Father’s very capable hands and became more convinced than ever that this outlandish plan to move clear across the world, is indeed His will for us and that He intends to use my weakness for His glory! Later in the week, we had a conversation with Pastor Brent. He told us about the struggles they faced as they began to serve as missionaries in Rome and how they came to realize that if it was God’s perfect will for them to be there, so far from their family, then it was also God’s perfect will for every other member of their family as well.

A few days after we returned to the States, my dad surprised me with a blessing we weren’t anticipating. It seems, he can get discounted family passes so we can fly stand-by on the airline that purchased the company where he retired. The distance doesn’t seem quite so far when the cost to visit family is so much less than we thought it would be! God had my biggest concern covered all along and was just waiting for me to get on board, before revealing it to me!

The page that slipped from Mike’s Bible was from a book by Max Lucado. I found out later that it was given to him the Sunday before we left for Rome, from someone who felt prompted by the Holy Spirit to send it with us. It also reads…

“For fear of doing the wrong thing for God, some do nothing for God. For fear of making the wrong kingdom decision, some make no kingdom decision. For fear of messing up, some will miss out.”…

“Faith begins when you see God on the mountain and you know that you’re too weak to make the climb. You see what you need… you see what you have… and what you have isn’t enough to accomplish anything… Faith that begins with fear will end up nearer the Father.”

Walking in the Newness of Life

Romans 6:3-4 “We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life.”

 So, just what does it mean to walk in the “newness of life”?

 When we become members of God’s family, we not only receive eternal life in the future… we are invited to step into eternal life the very moment we put our trust in Jesus! Along with our new birth, we are invited into an ongoing celebration of “newness”! We can walk in this “Newness of life” everyday that we are in this old body! (No matter how old this body gets.) God’s mercies are new every morning… We can have newness of mind… new hope… new vision… new passion and new purpose!

This is extremely good news! But I feel like many may be missing out!

It’s like we’ve been given an invitation to a party and we’re excited to be welcomed in, but we never get past the foyer to enjoy the company of our host and everything else He has prepared for us.

 “Newness of life” is the opposite of our same-old, same-old, day in, day out, stagnant, self- centered, stuff collecting progression toward death. To walk in the newness of life is to celebrate singing a new song everyday as we grow, change and actively move ever closer to the Giver of life!

We have a lot of “newness” coming into our life this year as many changes are coming our way. Everyday we have a choice to celebrate the changes and embrace the “newness” or to stop moving forward, get stuck in our own little comfortable, stable, predictable world, and miss out on what God has for us.

 We could choose to get off this new path, but if we did, would God still love us? Absolutely!

Would He still use us in other ways? Yes, I’m pretty sure He would.

Would He offer us other opportunities like this? Maybe… Maybe not… I don’t know.

What I do know, is that He has opened this new door and said, “Come with me. This is the way, walk in it.” And if we want to follow Jesus and walk in the newness of life, we need to stick close to Him so we don’t miss anything!

Are you celebrating the newness of life that Jesus purchased for you? Or are you content to have fire insurance?

 Here are a couple questions to see if you might be missing out…

1)   Do I try to hang on to the old, comfortable ways I’ve always done things?

2)   Do I get anxious when things are changing around me?

3)   Do I cling to old habits, even when I know they serve no purpose or might even be bad for me?

4)   Does my life look new and different from the old life I lived in my pre- Christ days?

5)   Do I still cling to my own dreams and ambitions or have I completely surrendered my life to follow Christ and walk in newness of life?

6)   Do I find my sense of well being in my possessions… my job… my marriage? Or is it found in Christ, regardless of where I am, what I have or any other circumstances that surround me?

What are some of the ways that we are called to walk in this newness of life that Jesus purchased for us?

  1. Instead of wallowing in the opposite of newness… same old, same old… I can let go of my need to control everything! I can actually enjoy “Singing a new song to the Lord.” Let Him author it and put it to music in a way that only He can. Let Him write His story on my heart! Why on earth would we ever think we could write a better story ourselves?
  2. I can be determined to actually behave as a New creation! Out with the old – in with the new! …2 Cor. 5:17-21
  3. We really are a New man (or woman) when we give ourselves to the Lordship of Christ …Eph. 4:22-24… Col. 3:9-10… How do we step into or “put on” this new self? Galatians 2:20I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” That’s the secret…  If we want to truly live, we need to die to our old life. Bury it once and for all! That’s the picture God is painting in our baptism. Baptism is not just a ritual, something religious that we do just because it’s what Christians are supposed to do. We can’t “DO” anything to add to Christ’s finished work on the cross! Nevertheless Christ commands us to be baptized because this is an extremely important picture that He wants to communicate to us. John 12:24-26… Just like the seed must die in order to produce new life, Jesus had to die so we might have this new life. Did He die for us just so we could squander our life on meaningless pursuits?
  4. We are told we must die to our old life if we want to truly live and experience newness of life.  Mark 8:35 “Whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it.”
  5. We can enjoy this New and living way, the way we were designed to live… not for ourselves, but for others… Heb. 10:19-25
  6. To be Christ centered is to be others-centered… to be Ministers of a New covenant2 Cor. 3:5-6a
  7. Christ’s resurrection power enables us to serve the Lord in “newness of spirit.”…  Romans 7:6
  8. One day we’re promised a New nameRev.2:17
  9. Ultimately we look forward to New heavens and a new earthRev. 21:1
  10. Maybe as we learn to embrace the newness of the little changes He brings our way, we’ll be better prepared for the day when He makes “all things new”Rev. 21:5

Why would we want to settle for same old, same old when we are invited to participate in and celebrate this “newness of life”? … This is the very reason we were redeemed in the first place!

Think about that word… “REDEEMED”… We were bought at a very high price! Do you think it was Jesus’ intention to hang on the cross so we could continue down the same self-seeking path to fulfill our own personal goals and dreams?

Was this amazing gift of new life meant simply to enhance our own, old way of life?

Maybe we had a lot going for us already, and now we have fire insurance as well as a nice social club to attend every Sunday.  What a deal!

If that’s all you think you received when you responded to good news,  you really are missing out on the best part of the Good news!

Is it possible that God redeemed us to be His very own treasured possession?… To fulfill His own plan and purpose through us?

“I have redeemed you. I have called you by name. You are mine.”  Isaiah 43:1

Being a Christian is really simple, right? Just “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved.” … “All who call on the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ will be saved.”… Do you notice an important word in each of these invitations? Have you ever considered what it means to call someone your “LORD”? Is that really so easy when we understand that it means we are giving up our right to be the master of our own life and handing that over to someone else?

The fact is, this new life is a free gift and there’s nothing we can do to earn it, because it already cost Jesus everything! But the beautiful thing is… once you actually step all the way in… past the foyer and into the party… into the very presence of your Redeemer, the One you’ve submitted to as Lord and Master… You realize that He knows you better than you know yourself and His plans for you are so far above anything that you could ever hope to dream up yourself.

Have you ever asked Him what His plans for you are?

Have you ever given Him permission to do with your life, whatever He pleases?

If you haven’t, I can guarantee that you are missing out! The same-old, same-old, day in, day out, way of life is all that you can expect. Is that really living? It’s not what you were created for and it’s certainly not what you were redeemed for! My prayer is that each of you will embrace this gift of walking in the newness of life that was purchased for you by the One who purchased you with His life!